Three friends came together to me and asked me how to trust someone. People always get hurt by someone whom they believe.
So I sent them all to nearby river, one by one and asked them to check the river.
First guy came along with long stick wet in water, and he said this much depth and water is flowing in this direction.
Second guy immersed his one leg in water and one at rivers bank, he came back and told that this much depth is water, this direction water is flowing and water is cold.
Third guy left and jump in river. He never came back and flow with high water tides.
Similar things happen with trust,
As first guy, who didn’t trust you much, he never get involved much with you, so don’t know much about you.
Second guy get involved with you. He trust you but partially, he only knows whatever he need to know about you and as well as he keep some secrets along with him, which he never will tell you.
Third guy trust blindly and as we all know he flew away with tides.
So in case of trust being like the second guy is better. So share your secrets according to situations and conditions only.
Disclose things to such an extent that you will be safe always. Trusting someone requires a lot of time, but do this wisely.
‘This is fictional story to tell you about how to trust somebody.’